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[SiH] On a Personal Note: Rediscovering TV

Success in Harmony

September 2007 - Vol. IV, Issue 9

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On a Personal Note: Rediscovering TV

I have to admit, I’m hooked a couple of TV shows. It’s been a while - we’ve had only rabbit ears hooked to our TV since we moved into our home 4 1/2 years ago, and we get snow and static on most of our local channels. However, we do get a couple of PBS stations (thank goodness for children’s educational programming, we love Between the Lions in our house) and a couple of other network stations. For the most part, we haven’t really watched much TV and haven’t really missed it! But the one thing I regretted was that ABC does not come in at all, so in spite of my desire to watch Dancing with the Stars in the past (yeah, I took ballroom dancing classes in college and loved it–unfortunately I married a non-dancer), I had to miss it.

Well, this season, ABC has posted full episodes of select shows on its website, abc.go.com. On demand, I can watch Dancing with the Stars with a few commercial interruptions (but fewer than live). I can’t vote, but I can enjoy the fun the next day. I wish they’d use more classic ballroom music and less pop, rock and rap, but there are some great performers among the stars and professionals. For those of you who are also watching, I’m really liking Helio Castroneves and Sabrina Bryan for their sharp performances and dancing talent. You’ve got to admire Mark Cuban for his work ethic–his dedication to the show and to doing his best is amazing–and Marie Osmond is such an engaging performer and so fun to watch. You can’t discount Jane Seymour, who is gorgeous and graceful at age 56. I’m looking forward to seeing who makes it to the top!

The other TV show I’m enjoying (if that’s even the right word!) is Ken Burns The War, a seven-part documentary about World War II. It’s currently playing on most PBS stations, and I’ve watched all but the last two episodes so far. I have increased my knowledge of the war itself, but most of all, I have increased my appreciation for the fine men and women who sacrificed in so many ways for the war effort. The horrors of war are made very real in this documentary, and that has been hard to watch. Personally, as a former missionary who lived in Japan and loved the people, I have had to deal with new feelings about the Japanese military and the brutality and cruelty they showed to not only Allied POWs but also Allied civilians and their own citizens. Ken Burns remains a masterful storyteller as he threads the personal experiences of real people through the narration. One of the things Ken Burns and PBS have done is to launch the Veterans History Project to collect and archive the wealth of personal experiences and capture the stories of World War II. For more about The War and the Veterans History Project, see http://pbs.org/thewar.

[SiH] Feature Article: Have You Tried Feedforward?

Success in Harmony

September 2007 - Vol. IV, Issue 9

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Feature Article: Have You Tried Feedforward?

I had the opportunity to hear executive coach Marshall Goldsmith speak about using “Feedforward” instead of Feedback twice recently–the first time at the WABC 10th Anniversary International Conference, and the second time at the recent Inc. 500 virtual conference.

In both presentations, he used the same experiential exercise. He had everyone in the room pick one thing that they’d like to do better, then go around the room and ask as many people as possible if they had any ideas what they could to improve. The only acceptable response to the ideas shared was to write them down and say “thank you.” Then the other person would ask for ideas for their chosen goal, and after ideas had been shared both directions, they would each move on to the next person as quickly as possible. Because of the speed and simplicity of the exercise, as well as the focus on the future (”forward”) instead of the past (”back”), most participants responded “fun!” when asked to complete the sentence, “this exercise was…” In addition, the dynamic is very different because “feedforward” goes both ways–both people have things they’ve chosen to work on and both people give and get ideas.

In contrast, how do most of us experience feedback when we receive it? Probably, the last adjective we’d use to describe the experience is “fun.” Typically, feedback is focused on what is wrong and what needs to be fixed. Naturally, when asked by someone to face what we’re doing wrong, we tend to become defensive and we automatically begin thinking of our response or justification rather than truly listening to the feedback. Even strategies like the “sandwich method”–sandwiching negative feedback between two slices of positive feedback–can feel contrived and uncomfortable, or at worst, manipulative.

Take a look at how your organization handles feedback. On one end of the spectrum, some organizations avoid feedback altogether. Instead, water cooler talk and talking behind each other’s backs replaces open feedback. The organization is full of “undiscussables” and rarely is the accurate reason given for a firing or lack of promotion. Another less healthy culture of feedback is the “just tell it like it is” method. Individuals in the organization criticize each other openly without regard for how the other might feel or respond.

There is a place for feedback related to what happened in the past. When the relationship is built on trust, colleagues can have helpful, open discussions taking a look at patterns from the past, their results, and whether or not we are happy with the results we are getting. However, after that focus on the past, the focus shifts to the future–what results do we want, and what can we do differently to achieve that result? What resources and abilities do we have that will help us? How will we implement that and hold each other accountable to that new pattern?

In many organizations, individual feedback may be replaced in part by “feedforward.” Each person chooses one behavior to improve, gets as many ideas from as many different people as possible, and then processes the ideas. After the sharing of ideas, individuals can choose one idea that they will use to improve the one behavior they’ve chosen. A big key is limiting the focus to “one thing.” We are much more likely to succeed at one thing that we’re actively focusing on than when our attention is fractured.

Where can you begin to use the idea of “feedforward” in your life?

The Inc. 500 virtual conference recently posted the recordings of Marshall Goldsmith and the other speakers. To view Marshall’s presentation, go to http://events.unisfair.com/index.jsp?eid=102 and go to the “Main Hall” and the “Conference Hall.” In addition to the “feedforward” exercise, there are some other real gems in his hourlong presentation.

You can download a copy of Marshall’s own article describing the “Feedforward” process at http://marshallgoldsmithlibrary.com/html/marshall/resources.html.

[SiH] Recommended Resource: Streamline Typing with Texter

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October 2007 - Vol. IV, Issue 9

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Recommended Resource: Streamline Typing with Texter

I have recently begun using a simple utility on my computers called Texter. It is a text replacement program for Windows that allows me to create shortcuts that will replace the abbreviation with longer text at the press of a key. Texter is an exclusive f’ree download available at the blog www.lifehacker.com. So far, I have configured a date-time stamp, multiple email signatures, contact information, letter and email closings, standard html coding, even email text that I use frequently. It’s better than application-specific text replacement or autocomplete, because it can be used in any application you can type in, including your internet browser. According to the description page, “Texter saves you countless keystrokes.” I’m all for that!

Read more and download at http://lifehacker.com/software/texter/lifehacker-code-texter-windows-238306.php.

[KS News & Resources] My Gift to You: Learn How to Get Your Book Published From the Best in the Biz This Month in Salt Lake City!

Keyway Strategies News & Resources

This is extremely important and urgent news. I received four tickets to the AuthorWise Bestseller Conference yesterday in the mail. One of the tickets is mine, which means that I have three tickets to give away. You’ll be coming to Salt Lake City on October 18th and 19th as my guest for this amazing conference. Of course, this is very time-sensitive - you must let me know right away if you are coming so I can register your ticket in your name. Please email me ASAP at sara(at)keywaystrategies.com if you’re at all interested, and I will give you all the information you need!

Spend two powerful days with 10 of the worlds’ most successful, million-copy bestselling authors as they share their secrets of how they launched their publishing careers… and how you can, too.

You’ll be flooded with dozens of great ideas from world-class experts with combined book sales in excess of 200 MILLION BOOKS! Learn at the feet of Mark Victor Hansen, Richard Paul Evans, Robert G. Allen and nine other authors from across many genres as they share their expertise.

Of course, those of you who live in Utah have an advantage in that you may be able to stay in your home and save on plane fare. However, don’t let the travel expenses keep you from realizing your dream of becoming a published author.

Should you attend? You don’t need to be a published author. You don’t need be in the book business. But you do need to be able to answer “yes” to at least 3 of the following questions…

Can you answer” yes” to at least 3 of the following questions?

  • Do you love books?
  • Have you ever read a book that changed your life?
  • Have you ever dreamed of being an author? (Or know someone who has?)
  • Would you like to learn the secrets of how to write, publish and turn your books into bestsellers?
  • Would you like to learn these secrets from 10 of the most successful, highest-paid, million-copy bestselling authors in the world?
  • Would you like to save yourself thousands of dollars and years of frustration and failure to learn the fastest way to the top?
  • Would you like to learn how to earn $20 for every word you write?
  • Would you like to learn how to become an information multi-millionaire?
  • Would you like to meet and make friends with hundreds of like-minded, success oriented people to help you on your
    destiny path?
  • Would you like to join with enlightened entrepreneurs who are committed to making the world a better place through enlightened causes?
  • Would you like to have a lot of fun, be part of a history-making event and, at the very least, get some free stuff and score some great deals on some great books and get some priceless autographs to boot?

This is the first time that BookWise & Company has hosted an international conference of this magnitude, and it’s just amazing that they are giving away tickets. This promises to be a life-changing event. Let me know as soon as possible if you’re in!